Here Comes An Article From My Series "THE MIND OF A
PLAYER."
Ooops! As A Guy I Shouldn't Be Sharing This, As It Is
Regarded As Giving Out Too Many Secrets On How The
Typical Player Mind Works. But I'm Doing So Because I
Oftentimes Feel Sorry For Most Single/Married Ladies Out
There Who Walk Around Thinking They Know What It Is
That Goes On In A Man's Mind When It Comes To
Relationship And How Most Men Seek Desperate Ways To
Knock Down A Lady.
Therefore, I'd Advice If You Are A Single Lady Who Wants
A Serious Relationship, Or Into One Already. Then Take
Your Time To Follow Up On This Series By Reading This
Article. And As A Married Lady You Should Too, As You
Might Pick Up One Or Two Things.
First, I Want To Kick Off On A Spiritual Note. And I'm
Gonna Be Quoting In Part From The Amplified Version Of
Ephesians 5:22 And 25 Respectively To Drive Home A
Point, And I Quote In Part "Wives Be Subject (Be
Submissive And Adapt Yourselves) Unto Your Own
Husbands...." 25 "Husbands, Love Your Wives..."
Now Somebody Is Thinking... How Does This Relate To
Singles? Yes It Does, Because It Carries A Lot Of Spiritual
Weight And Order Concerning How Relationship/Marriage
Should Be.
First, Note How It Said Women Should Subject
Themselves. Doesn't That Say Something? That Shows
Women Might Have A Hard Time Being In Subjection... And
Men Might Have A Hard Time "LOVING." Else, Why Didn't
Those Passage Say "Men Submit, And Wives LOVE." That
Shows Both Often Fall Short In These Areas, And So That
Was Written To Remind Both Parties On Where To Work On
To Build A Successful Marriage.
Now That You Know Men Have A Hard Time "LOVING." We
Can Now Go Into WHY AND HOW MOST LADIES GET
PLAYED IN RELATIONSHIPS.
Men Know That Women Are Wired To LOVE Naturally With
Ease, But What Makes A Guy Decides To PLAY On A Lady
Is How She Carries Herself, The Way She Talks And The
Attitudes She Displays.
I Want To State Here That Ladies Who Play Hard To Get,
And Those Who Place A Guy On Conditions To Date Him,
Are The Main Target And Victims Of A PLAYER.
A True PLAYER Doesn't Play On A Lady Who Is Free, Open
And Genuine. Rather Than Play On Such A Lady, He Would
Rather Quit Or Withdraw From The Relationship At An Early
Stage To Avoid Wasting Her Time And Hurting Her So
Badly.
PLAYERS Study And Know What Is Peculiar To Any Lady...
Moreso, They Are The PERFECT Pretender. They Know
Exactly What To Do At The Right Time To Make A Lady
Feel Loved.
Moreso, As Much As We Have PLAYERS... So We Have
Desperate MEN...This Men Could Go Any Length To
Humiliate A Lady. At This Juncture, I'll Be Sharing With
You On The Experience Of A Couple Of Ladies...
I'm Gonna Be Hitting On Some Grievous Mistakes Some
Ladies Innocently Or Deliberately Make When Wanting To
Date. And Oftentimes, The Devil Uses It As A Way To
Frustrate Some Ladies.
Sometime Ago, I Met A Lady Who Insisted That Any Guy
She Would Date Or Marry Must Be Wealthy... Hence, She
Ended Up Dating Wealthy Guys Who Continuously Dated
And Dumped Her Afterwards. As Much As There Is Nothing
Wrong In Dating Wealthy Guys, Your Motives Could Actually
Be Misunderstood And Used Against You... Hence She Fell
Prey To Guys Who Knew Her Intentions Were Not Pure.
Secondly, There Was A Catholic Lady Who Insisted Any
Man She Would Date Or Marry Would Be Catholic As Well,
Hence, A Guy Who Wanted Her Badly Became A Catholic
Just To Get Married To Her. Unfortunately, Immediately
The Priest Declared Them Husband And Wife, The Guy
Renounced His Membership As A Catholic From That Day.
Now Tell Me What Would Be The Fate Of That Lady?
Another Incident, Is One Of That Should Be An Eye Opener
To Our Ladies Who Are Virgins, And Those Who Stand For
"No Sex Till After Marriage." And So There Was This Lady
Who Said "The Man That Would Disvirgin Her Must Be Her
Husband" And So The Guy Went To The Extent Of Doing
Introduction And Traditional Marriage... Just After The Man
Disvirgined Her, His Attitude Changed, Till He Finally Left
Her. Not To Mention That There Are Strange Men Out
There Who Seek Virgins, Not Because They Want Them As
A Wife, But To Disvirgin Them... Which Is Sometime A
Requirement For Some Guys/Men Who Belong To A Secret
Society To Make Wealth. So Be Mindful Of Who You Brag
About Your Virginity To.
I Remember Approaching A Lady With Clear Intentions Of
Wanting To Date And Marry Her If Things Worked Out Well.
Though I've Known Her For Some Time Before Making A
Move. She Just Looked At Me, Smiled! And Asked, "Do You
Have An Apartment Of Your Own? I Said NO! That I'm
Squatting With A Friend.
... Then She Told Me That Before We Go Into Anything
Serious That I Should Go First, Get An Apartment And
Furnish It Before She Would Be Ready To Date Me.
I Went Home Knowing She Wasn't The Kinda Girl I Thought
She Was, I Then Made Up My Mind To Punish Her For
Giving Me Such A Condition. A Month Later, I Called Her
And Told Her That Everything She Asked Me To Do Is Now
Set. She Came Around, Confirmed It And Then She Agreed
To Date Me. As Time Went On, 2months Into The
Relationship, I Called Her One Day, And Told Her I Was No
Longer Interested In The Relationship. What She Didn't
Know Was That I Already Had My Own Apartment Before I
Approached Her. But Because Of The Conditions She
Placed On The Relationship Which Proved She Was Being
Materialistic, I Decided To PLAY On Her, To Prove To Her
That LOVE Is Beyond All That.
NOTE: Their Are Guys Who Are Out There To Experiment
On Girls,... So As A Young Girl, You Are Into Teenage
Relationship Thinking It Would Lead To Marriage, Nine Out
Of Ten Times You Are Wrong.
Most Importantly To Every Single Lady Out There... That
He Cares And Does Nice Things For You, Calls And Texts
You Every Second Doesn't Always Mean He Loves You... It
Could Be That There Is Something He Seeks, And Until He
Gets It... He Wouldn't STOP. Even Though It Means
MARRYING YOU To Get It. That's Why You See Some
Marriages Starts Crashing Just After The WEDDING.
OPEN YOUR EYES, USE YOUR HEAD AND STAY TRUE TO
YOURSELF. And If You Really Want To Be Safe, STAY
TRUE To GOD. Don't Deceive Yourself By Trying To Show
To Men That You Are Giving Certain Conditions Because
You Want To PLEASE GOD. When In Other Areas Of Your
Life GOD Isn't There.
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