10 Things Your Man Is Secretly Hoping You’d Try Out During Sex

We talked about five of the things your man is hoping and
dying to see you try out in bed
These things are guaranteed to spice up your relationship
and marriage as you and him are bound to gain some sort
of equal pleasure from such things. Some other things to
try out to ‘wow’ your man are discussed below.

Slow down
I think everyone can relate to this. That point where you’re
tired, exhausted and can’t wait to get it over with. Perhaps
you’re caught up in the euphoria of the moment and your
body and mind simply respond to lovemaking by going fast.
Reducing the tempo can have a powerful effect. We love to
have a feel of everything and savour the moment. If you’re
performing oral sex, take it slow and allow the sensations
run all the way to his head. Tease him as you do so before
going fast. Starting mildly from the onset and ending in a
fast climax is a technique that would assuredly blow his
mind.

Get frisky anywhere but in bed
Just as women have crazy fantasies, so do we men. We
fantasise about making out in different places asides the
bedroom. Truth is routine sex is ideal and should be
confined to the bedroom and the natural innate adventurous
being in men want something different from that from time
to time and this is actually a good thing for the relationship
in general. Try different areas of your home such as on top
of a rug, the bathroom, kitchen and what have you. You can
also consider the couch in the sitting room provided the
distraction of the television is nonexistent.

Show off your acting chops
A lot of men, including the married and unmarried are
bothered about the fact that they might get bored with
having sex with just one woman. Role playing can play a
crucial role in solving this problem. Switch roles with your
partner and this will help to increase dopamine- a hormone
responsible for arousal. It also effectively helps in sexual
attachment so that even when you switch roles, the sense
of closeness is retained.

Let him dominate you
Couples routinely get into the sexual mood following a
calendar like way. This may occur in such a way that it is
every night at the same place and position. And even
though your partner may not make any move whatsoever to
break the routine, he actually wants the power to control,
change and turn things around. Get out one of his silk ties,
have him bind your hands together, and let him take it from
there. Chances ate you won’t regret it.

Do something taboo
A lot of men want to break from the norm and do things
that are otherwise out of the ordinary. Men want to
participate in acts that seem forbidden and exposes both
his vulnerability and yours and as such he looks forward to
experiencing it but lacks the will to suggest it because he
is scared of offending you. If you are the type that is
adventurous and loves experimenting, and you think your
partner would enjoy things being turned on their heads,
initiate a conversation or move that will trigger something
forbidden.